If He Makes You Happy
Shortly before their wedding, Howard completely surprised Bernadette by telling her he'd be going to space to install a telescope in the International Space Station. Not knowing how to react, Bernie gathered her best friends for a major vent session.
Instead of bashing Howard, Amy and Penny chose to focus on Bernadette's feelings so they could steer the conversation in a more productive direction. The girls assured Berie that they'd support her no matter what, but encouraged her to really think about the benefits and drawbacks of the relationship. Could Bernie truly see herself as Mrs. Wolowitz, or did she feel like pumping the brakes a bit?
While they didn't tell Bernadette everything they wanted to say, the women did what mattered most: They listened to their friend and let her know just how much support she had in their relationship.