Gibbs lost his first family to a tragic accident.
Gibbs met his first wife, Shannon, at a train station in Stillwater. Shannon lived her life by a code, which eventually inspired Gibbs to create his own set of rules. The two later married and had a daughter, Kelly, whom they adored. Unfortunately, the family's happiness didn't have an opportunity to last long.
After Shannon witnessed cartel member Pedro Hernandez murder a Marine, both Kelly and she were placed under protective custody. One night, Shannon and Kelly were being driven by an NCIS agent responsible for looking after them. A vengeful cartel member tracked them down and shot the agent in the head. With no one to take control of the wheel, the vehicle crashed, and both mother and daughter died instantly.
While it wasn't his fault, Gibbs has always blamed himself for serving overseas instead of protecting his family.